What your profile means.

Behind Closed Doors uses thirty imagined scenarios for adult self-reflection. It is not a validated personality test or a measure of sexual performance.

Your answers, not assumptions about her

Names personalise imagined situations. They do not establish what the named person thinks, wants or has done. Each answer selects a written reflection prompt. The report includes a detailed type profile, six highlighted moments, strengths, three starting points and a seven-day plan.

Five patterns

Steady: Open, honest or boundary-respecting responses. Available in 30 questions. Scoring weight: 30.

Overthinker: Doubt or self-consciousness, often alongside a constructive action. Available in 30 questions. Scoring weight: 30.

Performer: Managing an impression or trying to meet an imagined standard. Available in 17 questions. Scoring weight: 17.

Scorekeeper: Comparison, questioning or checking to manage uncertainty. Available in 11 questions. Scoring weight: 11.

Wall: Avoidance, defensiveness or an unspoken difficult reaction. Available in 30 questions. Scoring weight: 32.

How the percentages work

Each selected answer adds one point to its assigned pattern. We divide the total by fixed scoring weights: Steady 30, Overthinker 30, Performer 17, Scorekeeper 11, and Wall 32. Wall is available on 30 questions, so 32 is a scoring weight rather than an attainable answer count; its highest score is 93.75%. A question can award only one point even if two options have the same label. These percentages are pattern scores, not how much of a personality you have. They do not add to 100 and are not calibrated comparisons or rankings against other people.

Primary and secondary

The highest unrounded proportion determines the primary pattern, except Steady takes priority at 60% or more. Exact ties follow Wall, Scorekeeper, Performer, Overthinker, Steady. The secondary is the highest remaining non-Steady pattern at 25% or more, excluding the primary. Otherwise the report says no strong secondary pattern. These thresholds and tie rules are framework choices, not clinical findings.

Your six moments

We select up to six primary-pattern answers in question order. If needed, we add other fourth answers, then third answers, then remaining questions. There are no duplicates in this selection. Supplemental moments are labelled additional reflection points.

A boundary is not a failing

Answers use fixed position-based labels: first Steady, second Overthinker, fourth Wall. Third answers vary by question. A label attached to a refusal or preference does not make that choice a failing. Feeling uncertain is different from pressuring, monitoring or deceiving someone. The suggestions address the actual response selected, rather than prescribing more adventurous preferences.

What the report cannot tell you

It cannot diagnose, measure hormones, assess sexual ability, predict performance, establish compatibility or know a partner’s experience. Imagined answers may differ from real behaviour. Practical prompts are general reflection, not therapy or a promise of improvement.

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